Ep. 140: How to Have a Happy Divorce with Ben Heldfond and Nikki DeBartolo

How to Have a Happy Divorce with Ben Heldfond and Nikki DeBartolo PIN

How to Have a Happy Divorce with Ben Heldfond and Nikki Debartolo

Ben and Nikki are authors of Our Happy Divorce.

The Unspoken Topic

  • Pointing the finger at the other person doesn’t support a healthy marriage, a happy divorce or co-parenting experience. 

What We Cover

  • How your inner work can help you find an amicable way through divorce.
  • How to start taking accountability for your actions and the way you show up in the relationship.
  • Focus on your side of the street if you want a happy marriage or divorce.
  • How to not hand your children the emotional bill of your divorce.

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Key Takeaway

  • Nikki: Children are so smart. They know and feel everything. And no matter how easy you make divorce on children, it’s never easy.
  • Ben: Pain is mandatory, but the suffering part can be optional or at least minimal.

Mama Has a Minute 

  • Favorite form of self-care: Nikki: Bath. Ben: Golf and walking with friends.
  • Best parenting advice ever received: Nikki: Think before you speak. Ben: Give kids space to express themselves and tell their truths.
  • Parenting Hack: iPad.
  • Product Child cannot live without: iPad and phone.
  • Share 1 book: Our Happy Divorce. 
  • What parenthood means to you: Nikki: One single being can completely take over your whole life. Ben: Parenthood has taught me more about myself and how fast it goes so I try to be present and not on autopilot.

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